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Time:11:46 pm
Why dont' parents ever see they have a good kid?

i dunno what is up but they have been really cool, really lax, i wasn't messing up and so they were happy. i could pretty much go out whenever, stay out till whatever as long as it was curtious. but as of late they are back tracking. one my mom is always pissed anyway and yelling, but now they are treating mew like a bad kid again.

for example. tonight after i met up with some friends i was gonna go to a party so i gave my mom all the information with the promise to be back early and she was like is there gonna be drinking there.

this is her new thing. she knows if i do drink its where i am safe and i don't get drunk. but over all i don't drink. and my hunnie doesn't, so i don't anyway. so previously she has trusted me.completely as a matter of fact. but recently she has changed her mind and hasn't. tonight was the second party in the last little bit that she hasn't let me go to because other people will be drinking there. and then lectured me for 15 minutes about drinking. now if i went out and got thrashed and did something bad or something then i would understand this but i have done nothign to suddenly not be trusted.

also, tonight she acutally told me, you're 18 you don't need to be out all night and made me come home.

my father has resumed askign me things like don't you think your staying up too late, shouldn't you be in bed now? and sorts.

i dont' get what changed. i haven't done anything. i'm not a bad kid. the only thing i can be blamed for is going to out too much, and thats usually simply to be with Wonder Woman.

even now, she's lecturing to my back as i write this. le sigh.

she lectures me for hours on end about things i either don't do or about things that are completely random and arn't my fault.

she's always pissed.

my dad treats me like i'm 5.

this shit gets old quick.
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eshriela
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Time:2005-12-30 08:14 am (UTC)
Shes right. You are 18. You may be new at it, but under the law, your an adult, entitled to every right that she is except for drinking. Making you and her equals! Meaning that she should crawl out of your anus!

I know your living with her and this isn't exactly helpful, because you can't really tell her to fuck off. I would advise discussing your adulthood with her, and if she doesn't feel the need to understand, concider moving out. Thats just me though, its really up 2 you to weigh the options. In my opinion, while supporting yourself may be difficult, it is possible, and is one of the best ways to grow and be more. I'm moving out next week! Be a lemur. Follow me off the cliff!
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livnic
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Time:2005-12-31 06:26 pm (UTC)
lol i am going to. i just need to get a job again first.
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kittykatkawaii
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Time:2006-01-01 11:35 am (UTC)
thought u worked at the mall?
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