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Time:10:01 pm
This is what i want. I know it is.

I want to move in with Crystal more than anything right now, and it was brought up a while back, then put back on the back burner and now its up again. and its not a bad thing, please people don't get me wrong. i'm just scared.

she was just here. Its funny but every time she leaves now it feels wrong. like it shouldn't be happening. like i should be going with her, not staying at this odd house with these other people, its relaxation time now; time to kick back and shower, watch a movie, pick my things up, so i should be going home with her now.

We've only been dating a little over half a year. is this inmature of me? am i simply saturating myself too deeply into one woman or is this really just meant to be?

last night on our walk we were talking about what i forget and i started to ask her basically, well, when you get back next year are we, btu thats as far as i got. i am doing my best not to add pressure. i dont' want things to deteriorate like they did before. i live in constant fear that it will. but she egged me on. i was like naw, never mind, i dont' wanna ask that. she told me she wanted me to ask that. so i did. she said yes. then we discussed the idea of me moving into her fathers while she was gone. and i told her that i wanted to live with her for a while before she went and that if she were to honestly ask me to move out and into her house, i would.

here are my only problems.

1) i am afraid living with me will remind her of why things fell apart before.

2) her dad wouldnt' like it.

3) mom would be upset.

4) she would have to provide for me until i started working.

i dunno.

advice. i need advice. lots of it.
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eshriela
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Time:2005-12-21 09:25 am (UTC)
How can you know if shes "the one" or not if you don't persue the relationship to its maximum potential? I understand that there are difficulties with moving in, but you can't really expect it to be easy when 2 seperate and different lives meld together. The only way that things can grow is by changing. It may be difficult, but if you are really willing to persue a relationship with this woman then you will take the plunge.
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livnic
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Time:2005-12-22 12:19 am (UTC)
thanks Jack, you always know what to say.
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borgslayer
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Time:2005-12-21 05:27 pm (UTC)
hmm.

Well it doesnt make a relationship stronger to be directly supporting the other. but my guess is, find a job first then move in with her if you're still wanting to.

Maybe just try and sit down and talk this all out with her, layout your ideas and see what happens from there.

Its the advice i can give, it may not be good advice but there it is :P

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